Top 5 Movies to Pick For Date Night

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Top 5 Movies to Pick For Date Night

Studies show that date night is a great way to foster communication, build marital friendship, and improve relationship satisfaction. What better way to spend time with your spouse than curling up on the couch with a big bowl of popcorn and your favourite movie? These top 5 movies to pick for date night are ideal for your next date.

There is nothing better than cuddling up with your sweetheart for a movie night. These five movies are absolutely perfect for your date night in and will teach you a lot about your own relationship. 

1. Groundhog Day

Groundhog Day is a brilliant 1993 movie starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell. Surly weatherman Phil is sent to Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania, to cover the Groundhog Day festival. He has great contempt for his assignment, believing he is “too big” to be doing something so silly.

As a blizzard hits the city and leaves the reporting crew stranded there, Phil comes under a curve wherein he must live the same day over and over again. It is only when he learns to love that he’s able to make it to “tomorrow.”

The best relationship advice from Groundhog Day include –

Don’t take your loved one for granted – in real life there are no do-overs. For most of us, we only get one chance at love. This makes it so important to consider what we say, how we act, and how we value our spouse while we have time with them.

What you want the most may have been staring you in the face the whole time.

Likewise in the film, Phil spends days working with Rita, and potentially years during the groundhog day period of the film. But, he still continues going after random women for sex when the whole time, Rita was right in front of him.

If something is worth doing, it’s worth doing right. When Phil realises he likes Rita, he’ll do anything to be intimate with her, including lying and manipulating situations. But soon he learns that he must take the time to get to know her, take an interest in her hobbies, and develop a deep connection in order to win her true love.

2. 50 First Dates

Funnyman and playboy Henry, played by Adam Sandler, meets and falls for Lucy, played by Drew Barrymore. The only problem is, she can’t remember him the next day.

Lucy suffers from short-term memory loss, and the whole town of Oahu has made it their goal to shield her from the knowledge that it has been a year since the car accident that damaged her memory.

Unable to give up on the love he feels for Lucy, Henry goes on a date with her every single day in hopes of kindling a romance. Eventually, he makes her a video that explains who he is, what happened to her, and all that has happened in the world since her accident.

The best relationship advice found in this movie is that true love can overcome all adversity. No matter what you may be facing in life, true love will conquer all.

3. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

This movie, starring Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet, centres around the breakup of Joel and Clementine.

Unable to take the hurt and anger felt following an argument, spontaneous Clementine decides to have her memories of Joel wiped.

Out of spite, Joel gets his memories wiped, too. But he begins to relive their relationship as his memories are being erased and try desperately to stop the wipe from happening.

Life lessons learned from Eternal Sunshine include –

Good and bad memories are what make you grow. You cannot just erase your past or ignore it and hope for the best.

Everything that happens in a relationship gives you the knowledge and confidence to go forward knowing exactly what you do and do not want out of a partner. You can’t make someone fall in love with you.

In the movie, Elijah Wood’s character Patrick tries to make Clementine fall in love with him by manipulating her romantic memories of Joel, but it just doesn’t work. Why? In love, you either have chemistry or you don’t.

4. When Harry Met Sally

This Nora Ephron/Rob Reiner comedy stars Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal as Sally and Harry, respectively. This story follows the leading characters through a 12-year friendship. The main tagline of the film is whether or not a man and a woman can be “just friends”.

Eventually, these two falls in love, but only after years and years of chance encounters.

The greatest love lesson learned in this movie is that friendship is the basis for an excellent relationship. Even though it took Harry and Sally many years to get together for real, their journey backs up the statistic that marital satisfaction is higher when spouses are best friends.

5. 13 Going on 30

Jennifer Garner and Mark Ruffalo star in this adorable romantic comedy about 13-year-old friends Jenna Rink and Matty Flamhaff. Jenna longs to be a part of the popular “Six Chicks” clique at her school and invites them to her birthday party.

Things go awry when the Six Chicks blindfold Jenna and make her play “seven minutes in heaven” as part of a prank. Thinking that she is about to kiss a boy she really likes, Jenna is horrified when she removes her blindfold and realizes everyone has left her party except for Matty.

Angry, Jenna tells him to leave and locks herself in a closet and makes a birthday wish to be 30-years-old. When she wakes up as a 30-year-old magazine editor living in a Fifth Avenue apartment, Jenna realizes that being an adult isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

The best relationship advice from this film include –

Those closest in your life aren’t always good for you. In the movie, Jenna has a best friend and a boyfriend as an adult woman, neither of which have her best interests at heart. She knows well enough to leave these toxic people behind.

Rachael Lace

Rachael Pace is a relationship expert with years of experience in training and helping couples. She has helped countless individuals and organizations around the world

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