The Art Of Dirty Talk
The Art Of Dirty Talk
Ah those dirty words!! They are powerful and seductive in the bedroom and many of us know that they can be used for expression and effect and they can be a headboard-busting turn-on for both partners.
Being generous and wishing everybody to have an awesome time in the sack you twisted our arm into sharing with you the art of dirty talk.
In my opinion the art of dirty talking is an essential part of sex and one of the naughtiest things you can bring to your bedroom. Dirty talk provides you with opportunity to push your boundaries and blurt out sexy rude things to spice up your sex life. Done right, dirty talk is one of the hottest things for steamy sex.
Dirty talk can involve swear words but not strictly, a great way to sound sexy and dirty is describe out loud what is happening during sex. It could be about how wonderful it feels in your body, talk about your dirty fantasy, or saying what you are going to be doing next.
In addition, dirty talk is a great way to introduce new things and test the waters. Get your partner to ponder about that little dirty fantasy of yours and maybe they might try it next time. Plant the seed and let it grow all on its own, so to speak.
Dirty talk is not about what you say, but how you say it.
It’s not just about the words and phrases, you need to use your voice, sounds, moans, groans, sighs and whispers. You can use a commanding and harsh, submissive, quiet and uncertain voice. All to create the reaction and outcome you desire from your partner.
Dirty talk should come naturally from you
Don’t say words or phrases that you are not comfortable with, try to be yourself and say the words that come out naturally in order to sound spontaneous and really sexy. If not done right be ready to deal with giggles and laughter but better than the alternative – boring silence.
Dirty talk is not disrespect, it all about sexy paly.
Separate reality from sex. So you can be a naughty, dirty ‘bitch’ in the sack but a real ballbuster outside the bedroom.
Things you must keep in mind not to sound like an extremely awkward, nervous and tactless idiot in the bedroom, here are the subjects you need to avoid when things get raunchy:
- Don’t mention your ex’s name
- Never, ever criticize any of your lady’s body parts, and never use the word ‘fat’. If you do, expect a very long, long dry spell in your sex life, you numb wit!
- Don’t constantly appologise in the bedroom it’s really off putting. You’re having sex, not hosting a fancy dinner party.
- Sex is about lust, not love, so tell your lady how you love humping her till she orgasms.
Here are a few phrases you might want to use if they feel right on the moment:
‘I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.’
‘You can have me any way you want…’
‘I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.’
‘You can have me any way you want…’
‘Maybe you should spank me – I’ve been very, very bad.’
‘I want you to undress and wait for me in the bedroom.’
‘You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk!’
Dirty talk can be a lot of fun, remember that practice makes perfect so take it easy and work your way into it.
Don’t be quiet in the bedroom. Be a bad dirty girl/boy and talk dirty.
